If as a person you want to leave an impact on others, you don't have to do anything out of the box.
Just little adjustment in yourself and there you go..you will have an impact whichever place you go, whoever you speak with and most importantly in whatever you do……
So here are the keys which let's you to open door of limitless possibilities to win people and leave an everlasting impression…
1- Don't ever and ever and never CONDEM or CRITICISE others…the moment you do it people will have reason to prove that they are right and you are wrong …. That's it you loose opportunity to make an impression.
2-Honest and sincere appreciation, This naturally attracts people towards you.. everyone in this universe or parallel one wants appreciation…But remember they only want it to be HONEST one and SINCERE ONE
3-Arouse in other person an eager want. Talk things in way that is interesting, people want to listen things which interests them. So know whome you are talking to and how you can say things that will excite them to listen you but only YOU.
4-Become genuinely interested in other person.
Everyone here wants attention not only YOU …just remember that…. and so it becomes that you genuinely are interested in other person
5-smile
What I can say more about this only this….
”a smile can make a deer friend of Lion.”
6-other person name is sweetest to that person and most important sound in any language.
Just call other person's name with all respect you can, with all politeness you have and with as much affection …But don't overdo it.
7- Be good listener, encourage others to talk about themselves.
The less you speak the more wise you are…. this doesn't mean you should be silent listener…. Everyone has their version of story and they want to tell them to everyONE…. so be that ONE…you will attract people
8- TALK IN TERMS OF OTHER PERSON'S INTEREST…
And that will increase other's INTEREST in you
9-Make other person feel important and do it genuinely.
No one is unimportant…. so do make feel people how important they are…
10-Be sympathetic with other person's ideas and desires.
You may disagree…but there is a right way you can present your disagreement….besympathetic to others…ALWAYS
11-Dramatize your ideas.
No one has ever liked same toned monotonous voice …Present things in interesting way
12-Talk about your own mistakes before criticising other person.
This is best you can do ….to pull people on your side
13- Encourage others, make feel faults correction is easy task
Everyone wants to improve…and you can contribute in it…by providing constant motivation…
You will find how happy people will be with you
14- Make others enjoy in doing things you suggest them.
If you have more thrust to improve and be impressive…you can read an interesting book…. How to win friends and Influence people
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